Walk Away From Smug / Arrogant People if you can. Below is How to Deal with them Biblically when you have to.
Often A Person Becomes Instantly Smug / Arrogant when they Realize You are Right and they are Wrong. They Typically Will Not Admit that they are Wrong though. But You know they Realize they are Wrong because of their Smug / Arrogant Response.
Their Response: “OK, I Get Your Point. We are Both Right.”
These Geniuses Say the Most Impossible, Ignorant things.
An Answer to a Legitimate Question is Either Correct (Right) or Incorrect (Wrong) Period. There is No In-Between. Water is Wet. If you say Water is Dry you are Wrong. At this point just Walk away.
The Best Way to Deal with a Smug / Arrogant Person that You have to Be Around:
When You cannot just walk away.
At Work, Church, Home, etc…
Do Not Interact with them when You Do Not Have to. Avoid them as much as You Possibly can. When You are Forced to Put them in their Place.
If it is an Issue at Work: Pull out the Work Manual / Work Procedures. Every Job has Documentation on how you are supposed to do your Job.
If they do not accept it. Make them call over the Person who is the Next Highest over you Both to Confirm that you are Right. You Do not want to be the seen as the One who Needs Supervision.
Being Right is: Not the Same thing as being Arrogant.
Being Right 1,000 times out of 1,000 just makes you Right, it Does Not make you Arrogant. A thin skinned person who is Wrong will Call You Arrogant just because they are Constantly Wrong and You are always Right.
The Reason You are Always Right in these Situations is if You Do Not know the Right Answer You will Say: “I Do Not Know the Answer. I will Find the Correct Answer though.”
It is Foolish to Answer a Question that You Do Not know the Answer to for Sure. There are many ways to Find the Correct Answer without Doubt.
An Arrogant Person:
An Arrogant Person is the Person who makes a Point of Letting Everyone Know when they are Right about Something and Someone Else is Wrong.
When Someone Belittles someone for Being Wrong when they are Right that is Being Arrogant. Using words like:
“You are Stupid.”
“My 8 Year Old Sister knows this…”
This is how Arrogant People Talk.
A Smug Person
Being Smug is Something Arrogant People are. They Walk Around with a Superior Know It All, Attitude that you can Clearly see.
Being Smug is Also:
Rubbing it in when they are Right. This is Often Bizarre Because they Do this Even when No One Said that they were Wrong.
“See I know what I am Talking about.” “I Solved this.” “I Fixed this.” “I Did this.” They are Way too Proud of just doing their Job Correctly.
You might say: “Did I say you were Wrong?”
Their Reply “No”
Your Reply “Good. I am Happy You are Having a Good Day at Work.”
Do Not Be Sarcastic. That is how an Arrogant, a Rude Person Replies. Just Be Happy for them. The Less You interact with them the Better.
Everything I said Above can be applied to anyone’s Circumstances.
In Life: at School, at Work, with Friends and Family, etc…, you have to Deal with Smug / Arrogant People.
Be Humble. When Someone is Always Rude and Arrogant that is who they are. That is Not You, who You are. You Need to Keep from Losing your Temper which is what they want You to do.
A Humble Person will Ignore, the Ignorant, Rude, Smug, Arrogant People they are around as much as they can.
There is a time and a place to Deal with them. Privately, if You Can. Sometimes you have to Immediately Set them Straight with the Truth when they Really Get Carried away with themselves.
How You Should React to them:
1st Corinthians 13:4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
2nd Timothy 2:23 But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. 24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,
Titus 3:2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men. 3 For we ourselves also were sometimes foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another. 4 But after that the kindness and love of God our Saviour toward man appeared, 5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost; 6 Which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Saviour; 7 That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life. 8 This is a faithful saying, and these things I will that thou affirm constantly, that they which have believed in God might be careful to maintain good works. These things are good and profitable unto men. 9 But avoid foolish questions, and genealogies, and contentions, and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and vain. 10 A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject; 11 Knowing that he that is such is subverted, and sinneth, being condemned of himself.
The Above Passage Titus 3:2-11 Is the Very Best Possible Complete Answer on to how to Deal with Smug, Arrogant, People who are Causing Trouble.
Scholarship is a Lie:
1st Corinthians 1:19 For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent. 20 Where is the wise? where is the scribe? where is the disputer of this world? hath not God made foolish the wisdom of this world? 21 For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it pleased God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe.
1st Corinthians 3:18 Let no man deceive himself. If any man among you seemeth to be wise in this world, let him become a fool, that he may be wise. 19 For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He taketh the wise in their own craftiness. 20 And again, The Lord knoweth the thoughts of the wise, that they are vain. 21 Therefore let no man glory in men. For all things are yours; 22 Whether Paul, or Apollos, or Cephas, or the world, or life, or death, or things present, or things to come; all are yours; 23 And ye are Christ’s; and Christ is God’s.
Please Do Not Be Delusional, Boastful of your Education, your “Intelligence.”
1st Corinthians 3:18 Let no man deceive himself. If any man among you seemeth to be wise in this world, let him become a fool, that he may be wise. 19 For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God.
1st Corinthians 3:18-19 is a Warning to People, Especially to Christians.
The Warning is: Do Not Think that Being Educated by a College, any University makes you Intelligent, Wise. God Calls this FOOLISHNESS.
The Wisdom of this World is Satanic Propaganda:
The Excessive Pride Some People have when they talk about their Education makes me Sick.
I am Highly Educated. But I am Thankful, NOT ARROGANT about it. I am Happy to have gotten a Military Education in Advanced Electronics. I am not Boastful about it.
(When I Received my Education in the Navy Only 10% of Recruits Qualified for the Schools I completed through their ASVAB Test Scores. Only 20% of the People who started the Schools successfully completed the Schools. I Do Not Tell People this unless they ask about the Requirements to go to the Schools and what Scores a person had to get to pass the Schools.)
Disrespected By Arrogant College Educated People:
Men and Women with 2, 4, 6, 8 year degrees actually Mock me and laugh at me:
“You do not have a College Education, how did you get the Job you have…”
The People who have said things like this to me, and even worse things, Most of them, have never worked one day of their life in their Degree Field.
They get a Liberal Arts Degree, or: Philosophy, Psychology, Geology, Spanish, English, Literature, etc…, Degrees that are Not marketable. Or Degrees that require follow up education, they cannot afford, they have to have before they can get a job.
These people are working at Starbucks, a Gym, at Grocery Stores, at Gas Stations, at Fast Food Restaurants, etc…, some for minimum wage. Their ages are: 24, 27, in their 30’s, 40’s even older. They have huge Chips on their Shoulders because of their “Education.”
It is Impossible in Life to Not Come Across these Rude, Arrogant, Smug People.
At Social Gatherings They Always have to Tell you in their First Conversation with You that They Went to MIT, Stanford, College, whichever college they went to.
They Ask You: “What College did You Go to?”
You Reply: “I am in the Navy I work in Advanced Electronics, in the Aviation Field.”
They Reply: “OK, so You have No College. You should have Just said that. I Did Not Ask You what your Job was…”
YES They are That Rude and Short with People. They Do Not Want to Associate with People who they Think are Below them. People without a College Degree they have No Time For. They Give You a Smug Look and Walk Away.
This Type of Arrogant / Smug / Rude Person Hates the Military. They DO NOT RESPECT A MILITARY CAREER / EDUCATION.
Technical School / Military Education Man Dating a Woman with a College Degree:
I have Dated Women like I mentioned above from meeting them in Church / a Social Event. College Educated Women without a Job and Long away from the time they went to College, especially with Children, they have to Date who they can Find. They really cannot Ignore a man they are Attracted to even if that man Doesn’t have a College Degree. They Need a Guy to Buy them Lunch Dinner whatever they can get from Dating a man who is Making Money. This is just the Reality of it.
Countless Women have Never worked any job in their life after they found out they couldn’t get a job with their Degree. Or they couldn’t get more than minimum wage, or much more than minimum wage.
You will find them at Social Gatherings, at Church, really everywhere. They are the Experts online (Males too.) who brag about how Intelligent they are…
Men Do this too, Live off of Welfare After college just like the Women do I am talking about. They Find a way to Cling to College Educated Women who like having them around. Sometimes it is an Age Gap Relationship a 24 year old man and a 50 year old woman or older. This is Called having a Sugar Mamma / Sugar Mommy.
Yes there are also Sugar Daddy’s. There are a Lot of Different things like this going on for Young men and Young women to have a person Twice or even more than Twice their Age Pay to support them. Sometimes they get Married which is an Age Gap Marriage.
These Women are the Man in the Relationship. You can Find out about them online by Typing Women who want FBoys. In short Thousands of College Educated Women will Seek Out College Educated, Stay at Home Men, to Be the Woman in the Relationship. The Woman is Dominate, while the Man is Submissive and will Take Care of All of her Desires.
****Note**** There are Thousands of Men and Women that Get College Educations that they Never use and Find Men and Women who will Pay their Way plus they take All of the Money they Can Get off of Welfare.
Dating Arrogant / Smug Women who are like this is a Task.
It is Impossible, so I stopped dating Women like this. They Hated me for the Income I made.
Typical Comments I have Gotten:
“It is Beyond me how you make so much Money, without a College Degree. I spent over 6 years in College and I found out even if I worked 10 years in my Field I would Not make over $40,000.00 a year. So, I decided it was Not Worth it to even try to get a job…”
“I have tried for 4 years to get a job above minimum wage in my Degree Field. You didn’t EVEN Go to College and You make a lot more than I thought I could make with my College Degree. That is NOT RIGHT. THE BEST I CAN DO (Best Money she can Make.) IS WORK AS A WAITRESS!!!”
Millions of Men and Women with a College degree are Living off of Welfare, having Never Worked 1 day at a Job. They refuse to Work for the pay they can get. They are Angry and Full of Pride. “My Degree is Worthless…”
They Live off of Other People’s Taxes. Yet they themselves Feel Superior to the TaxPayers paying for their Welfare. The Single Mothers have Kids. They are Living off of the Welfare system. And off of the money they get from their Kids Dads…
I have personally known Dozens of women like this. Housing Projects all across the USA are Filled with Women just like this. College Educated Women. The Stereotype is that this type of Living is Only for uneducated women of Color. No College Women of all Races Live like this.
Beyond the comments I have mentioned, the Daily Behavior, Disdain these Women showed me was Rude, Sarcastic, Very Vocal, Toxic, etc…,
I cannot properly express it here. I do not know why they thought they could keep behaving like this towards me without me breaking up with them… None of them wanted to Break-Up with me. I guess they have known other men that would stay with them while being treated like this.
You Do Not Need a College Education to Get a High Paying Job:
With Several Years of Military Education and with my Military Experience I was hired by Top Technology Manufacturers for jobs that Required, a Master’s Degree.
Going to a Trade School is much more Valuable than having Most College Degrees.
Many times an Employer will pay for your Trade School. Men and Women can check Trade Schools out and Discover that they can Interview with an Employer and wind up having the Employer pay their Entire Trade School Bill as long as they successfully complete the training and work for them for a minimum amount of time. It is different with each Employer, 4 years is typical. You can find these offers by going to Job Fairs, while you are in High School. Many times you need to be under 30 years old to get these type of Employer paid offers.
Having a College Degree is Not an Indication of Intelligence, of Income level.
If you are a Christian I would not go to College:
Christian Colleges are NO Different than Secular Colleges. They are one and the same. Actually they are worse because they push Counterfeit Christianity.
If you are a Christian then the World, will Not Listen to what you have to Say Because they Mock, Laugh at, Hate Jesus / Christians.
John 15:18 If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. 19 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you. 20 Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also. 21 But all these things will they do unto you for my name’s sake, because they know not him that sent me. 22 If I had not come and spoken unto them, they had not had sin: but now they have no cloke for their sin. 23 He that hateth me hateth my Father also. 24 If I had not done among them the works which none other man did, they had not had sin: but now have they both seen and hated both me and my Father.
1st Corinthians 1:18 For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.
Colossians 2:8 Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
It is Arrogant to put Scholar Next to Your name. A Scholar is supposed to be an Expert in their Field. “The Authority” on a Subject.
No one is an Expert, a Scholar at Anything.
There are Experienced Professionals in All Fields which is far different from being an Expert, a Scholar.
The difference between an Experienced Professional and a Scholar is a Scholar is Supposed to KNOW EVERYTHING in their Profession.
A Scholar is: “Without Peer in their Profession” “What they say Cannot be Questioned” “They have Infinite Knowledge and Expertise in their Profession” etc…
Yes, this is the True Definition of a Scholar. You will realize people who call themselves Scholars believe the Dictionary Definition of Scholar if you try to have a conversation with one.
People Today think they are Scholars because of the Internet:
Keyboard Warriors will do a Google, an Internet, search and think that what they Find is the Undisputed Truth.
This is a Funny, an Ignorant Belief especially since if you take the time to look through enough pages of results you will find a lot of differences of opinion on the subject you are researching.
If You are a Christian Watch Your Behavior Everywhere. Do Not Be an Arrogant X-Rated Jerk at Anytime.
The Truth is, “Christians,” (People who CLAIM to be Christians) are No Better at being Civil online, even at times in person, then anyone else.
In Today’s world of Internet Keyboard Experts, it is Nearly Impossible to have an Adult Conversation with Anyone who Disagrees with You.
People Just want One-Way Conversations.
They ONLY want Positive comments to what they say. They Cannot Handle it when someone Disagrees with Them. They Lose Their Minds when someone is Critical of what They are Saying. They will TELL YOU OFF, if you write something they Disagree with. Then they will Block you so you cannot reply to their Unhinged Rant. They have to have the LAST WORD.
****Note**** The Internet, TV, is Not Safe for Children. Parents Need to put a Filter on their Children’s Internet Devices, the Internet is X-Rated. Parents Be Parents. Supervise Your Children at All times. If you are Not there, with them, have a Trustworthy Adult Always with them to Protect and Supervise Your Children. No Excuses!!!!
Do Not Waste Your Life. Satan wants to Cause People to Waste Their Lives. Please Do Not Waste Your Life:
Some Ways People Waste their Lives:
1: Fighting Useless Fights of All Types. Physical Fights. Verbal Fights. Internal Fights. Fighting on the Internet.
James 4:1 From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? 2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. 3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. 4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God. 5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy? 6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. 7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded. 9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. 10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
1st Peter 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: 9 Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world. 10 But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you. 11 To him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.
John 10:10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
2: On A Worthless Education
Jesus Disciples they were Not College Educated. They Received their Jewish / Christian Education from their Parents and from Jesus.
Acts 4:13 Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they marvelled; and they took knowledge of them, that they had been with Jesus.
It is important to Recognize that in Acts 4:13 the Slanted, Slanderous, Opinion of the Sadducees and the Pharisee’s is the Opinion in this verse. They are Arrogant and are Highly Proud of their “College Educations.” They each had Many Years of Formal Jewish Religious Education that Today would be Validated with College Degrees.
Simply Put Peter and John were Not Rabbi’s by their Standards so to them they were, “Unlearned and Ignorant Men.” This is Far from the Truth though. They like all of the other Disciples had been taught the Scriptures from their Youth. When Jesus Called them to be his Disciples they were All Looking for the Promised Messiah. They were Educated, All of them. They had the Best Possible College Degrees being Taught by Jesus for 3 and a half years.
A Christian Pastor, Evangelist, Preacher Doesn’t Need to Go to a Christian College to be Qualified for their Positions in a Church.
It is Best to have a Pastor that Has Not Been to a Christian College.
3: Lusting.
Matthew 5:28– But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Galatians 5:16– This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
1 Corinthians 6:18– Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 John 2:16– For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
Lusting is a Strong Overwhelming Obsession. Lust is an All Consuming Desire that People Waste their Lives on.
How To Be Saved:
Believe the Gospel Only to Be Saved:
1st Corinthians 15:1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
Acts 16:27 And the keeper of the prison awaking out of his sleep, and seeing the prison doors open, he drew out his sword, and would have killed himself, supposing that the prisoners had been fled. 28 But Paul cried with a loud voice, saying, Do thyself no harm: for we are all here. 29 Then he called for a light, and sprang in, and came trembling, and fell down before Paul and Silas, 30 And brought them out, and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved? 31 And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.



