King David: A Man After God’s Own Heart. A Very Flawed Man.

The Mystery of King David

Countless People, Christians, Pastors, Churches, etc…, Scoff at King David Actually Being a Man After God’s Own Heart.

Other people Understand:

It Is Impossible for Mankind to Understand God:

Job 36:26 Behold, God is great, and we know him not, neither can the number of his years be searched out.

Romans 11:33 O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out! 34 For who hath known the mind of the Lord? or who hath been his counsellor? 35 Or who hath first given to him, and it shall be recompensed unto him again? 36 For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen.

Isaiah 55:8 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. 9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. 10 For as the rain cometh down, and the snow from heaven, and returneth not thither, but watereth the earth, and maketh it bring forth and bud, that it may give seed to the sower, and bread to the eater: 11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.

God Knows what is in Everyone’s Heart

1st Kings 8:39 Then hear thou in heaven thy dwelling place, and forgive, and do, and give to every man according to his ways, whose heart thou knowest; (for thou, even thou only, knowest the hearts of all the children of men;)

1st Chronicles 28:9 And thou, Solomon my son, know thou the God of thy father, and serve him with a perfect heart and with a willing mind: for the Lord searcheth all hearts, and understandeth all the imaginations of the thoughts: if thou seek him, he will be found of thee; but if thou forsake him, he will cast thee off for ever. 10 Take heed now; for the Lord hath chosen thee to build an house for the sanctuary: be strong, and do it.

Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. 13 Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things are naked and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do.

Below is the passage where God tells Samuel that he has Picked David to be King over Saul because of David’s Heart.

1st Samuel 16:7 But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.

King David was a man after God’s Own Heart

1st Samuel 13:13 And Samuel said to Saul, Thou hast done foolishly: thou hast not kept the commandment of the Lord thy God, which he commanded thee: for now would the Lord have established thy kingdom upon Israel for ever. 14 But now thy kingdom shall not continue: the Lord hath sought him a man after his own heart, and the Lord hath commanded him to be captain over his people, because thou hast not kept that which the Lord commanded thee.

Acts 13:22 And when he had removed him, he raised up unto them David to be their king; to whom also he gave testimony, and said, I have found David the son of Jesse, a man after mine own heart, which shall fulfil all my will. 23 Of this man’s seed hath God according to his promise raised unto Israel a Saviour, Jesus:

1st Kings 15:1 Now in the eighteenth year of king Jeroboam the son of Nebat reigned Abijam over Judah. 2 Three years reigned he in Jerusalem. And his mother’s name was Maachah, the daughter of Abishalom. 3 And he walked in all the sins of his father, which he had done before him: and his heart was not perfect with the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father. 4 Nevertheless for David’s sake did the Lord his God give him a lamp in Jerusalem, to set up his son after him, and to establish Jerusalem: 5 Because David did that which was right in the eyes of the Lord, and turned not aside from any thing that he commanded him all the days of his life, save only in the matter of Uriah the Hittite.

Ezekiel 37:24 And David my servant shall be king over them; and they all shall have one shepherd: they shall also walk in my judgments, and observe my statutes, and do them. 25 And they shall dwell in the land that I have given unto Jacob my servant, wherein your fathers have dwelt; and they shall dwell therein, even they, and their children, and their children’s children for ever: and my servant David shall be their prince for ever.

King David is Proof God Can Use Very Flawed People

King David was a Murderer. He was Sexually Out Of Control.

His Lust for Bathsheba took control of him. He had her husband Uriah Killed. Uriah was a Brave Man. He was a faithful servant to King David.

2nd Samuel 11:2 And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. 3 And David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this Bath-sheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? 4 And David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house. 5 And the woman conceived, and sent and told David, and said, I am with child. 6 And David sent to Joab, saying, Send me Uriah the Hittite. And Joab sent Uriah to David. 7 And when Uriah was come unto him, David demanded of him how Joab did, and how the people did, and how the war prospered. 8 And David said to Uriah, Go down to thy house, and wash thy feet. And Uriah departed out of the king’s house, and there followed him a mess of meat from the king. 9 But Uriah slept at the door of the king’s house with all the servants of his lord, and went not down to his house. 10 And when they had told David, saying, Uriah went not down unto his house, David said unto Uriah, Camest thou not from thy journey? why then didst thou not go down unto thine house? 11 And Uriah said unto David, The ark, and Israel, and Judah, abide in tents; and my lord Joab, and the servants of my lord, are encamped in the open fields; shall I then go into mine house, to eat and to drink, and to lie with my wife? as thou livest, and as thy soul liveth, I will not do this thing. 12 And David said to Uriah, Tarry here to day also, and to morrow I will let thee depart. So Uriah abode in Jerusalem that day, and the morrow. 13 And when David had called him, he did eat and drink before him; and he made him drunk: and at even he went out to lie on his bed with the servants of his lord, but went not down to his house. 14 And it came to pass in the morning, that David wrote a letter to Joab, and sent it by the hand of Uriah. 15 And he wrote in the letter, saying, Set ye Uriah in the forefront of the hottest battle, and retire ye from him, that he may be smitten, and die. 16 And it came to pass, when Joab observed the city, that he assigned Uriah unto a place where he knew that valiant men were. 17 And the men of the city went out, and fought with Joab: and there fell some of the people of the servants of David; and Uriah the Hittite died also.

Despite of All of David’s Many Flaws He was Still God’s Chosen King, A Man After His Own Heart.

If you read the entire Bible you will see David’s Good Heart. David Did Not Sin and Think that What he Did was OK. David was very Sorrowful For His Sins. David Sought God’s Forgiveness.

David’s Acknowledgment, His Feeling the Weight, the Guilt Over his Sins, sets him apart from most people. David was Physically Pained over his Sins. He kept Sinning in a Big Way…

David is so complex it is extremely difficult to understand him. I think David was tempted by Satan more than anyone else, besides Jesus. He just couldn’t keep himself from all of his Sinful Desires.

David wrote most of the Psalms in the Bible.

You can see his Closeness with God and his Good Heart if you read them.

Psalms 23:1 The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. 3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

David’s Grief Over His Sins:

I AM SORRY…. PLEASE FORGIVE ME….

Psalms 38:15 For in thee, O LORD, do I hope: thou wilt hear, O Lord my God. 16 For I said, Hear me, lest otherwise they should rejoice over me: when my foot slippeth, they magnify themselves against me. 17 For I am ready to halt, and my sorrow is continually before me. 18 For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin. 19 But mine enemies are lively, and they are strong: and they that hate me wrongfully are multiplied. 20 They also that render evil for good are mine adversaries; because I follow the thing that good is. 21 Forsake me not, O LORD: O my God, be not far from me.

Psalm 51:1 Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. 3 For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me. 4 Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest. 5 Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me. 6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom. 7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. 8 Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoice. 9 Hide thy face from my sins, and blot out all mine iniquities. 10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me. 11 Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me. 12 Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit. 13 Then will I teach transgressors thy ways; and sinners shall be converted unto thee. 14 Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God, thou God of my salvation: and my tongue shall sing aloud of thy righteousness. 15 O Lord, open thou my lips; and my mouth shall shew forth thy praise. 16 For thou desirest not sacrifice; else would I give it: thou delightest not in burnt offering. 17 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise. 18 Do good in thy good pleasure unto Zion: build thou the walls of Jerusalem. 19 Then shalt thou be pleased with the sacrifices of righteousness, with burnt offering and whole burnt offering: then shall they offer bullocks upon thine altar.

King David he was a Powerful, Remarkable Confusing person.

Yes as I have explained David did some Horrible Truly Terrible things including: Murder and Adultery. After he Sinned he was Sorry and he did Ask for God’s Forgiveness.

David was Incredibly Reckless. Having Sex with someone’s Wife is No accident. David Lusted after Bathsheba for a long time. He created an opportunity to Sin against Uriah to have Sex with his wife Bathsheba.

Only after David’s Sin was exposed by Nathan the Prophet did he feel anything Wrong about what he had done.

Adultery and Murder. David was Ruled by his Passions.

2nd Samuel 12:1 And the LORD sent Nathan unto David. And he came unto him, and said unto him, There were two men in one city; the one rich, and the other poor.2 The rich man had exceeding many flocks and herds:3 But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.4 And there came a traveller unto the rich man, and he spared to take of his own flock and of his own herd, to dress for the wayfaring man that was come unto him; but took the poor man’s lamb, and dressed it for the man that was come to him.5 And David’s anger was greatly kindled against the man; and he said to Nathan, As the LORD liveth, the man that hath done this thing shall surely die:6 And he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity.7 And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul;8 And I gave thee thy master’s house, and thy master’s wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things.9 Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon.10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife.11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun.12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.13 And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the LORD. And Nathan said unto David, The LORD also hath put away thy sin; thou shalt not die.

Lessons you can Learn From King David:

Do not Be Like King David when he was Sinning. Who was only Sorry after he was Caught Red Handed.

If you are Caught…. and then say I am Sorry Only because you were Caught, No Matter how many Tears you shed, that Apology is Very Meaningless, Empty.

If you have Wronged someone. The best thing to do is to Stop your behavior.

If it makes sense you should Apologize if you are Actually Sorry.

Often saying I am Sorry only Hurts someone Worse than if you Did Not Say I am Sorry.

People Typically Find the Words: “I am Sorry.” Empty and Meaningless.

If you are Actually Sorry for what you have done and want to Confess and you are seeking Forgiveness than you Should Apologize.

Apologize without any expectations.

You might not be Forgiven. In Truth it is unlikely that you will be Forgiven, even if they say they Forgive you. Most People hold Grudges Forever. They will Never Trust you again.

I am Deeply Sorry for Numerous things I have done as a Child and As an Adult. Yes. I have asked for forgiveness. I have said I am Sorry.

Saying I am Sorry…

That is for you to Clear your Conscious. You Feel your Guilt Overwhelming you…. You Feel like you could Explode because the Guilt is eating you up so you Say: I am Sorry.

A person hearing “I am Sorry….” They might just say rightly. “No!!!!” “You are not Sorry…” “If You were Sorry You Never would have done it…”

They might be Kind, Gracious and say, I Forgive you.

Sometimes all you can do is to Go Away and Never talk to, Never see that person Ever Again. This includes your Family.

Many people have done things that cause them to Lose their entire Family.

My Best Friend in High School Murdered his Pregnant Wife (Twins) he will never get out of Prison. I know he doesn’t get any Visitors. He was around 22 years old at the time. A long time to live afterwards…

You don’t have to be a Murderer to Lose your Family and Friends. Being a Thief, a Sexual Deviant, etc…, will ruin your Life once you are caught.

So, Don’t be that type of Person.

Maybe you have Lost all your Friends and Family… You have to Start Over. Stop the Behavior that caused you to Loose them. God Does Forgive Sins.

You can Rebuild your Life with God’s Help…

God can and will Still Use you if you Don’t Give Up and Change. The Big Lesson of David’s Life to Understand is God Can Use us even After we have Been a Horrible Person.

Our Sins, our Actions have Consequences. It is Better to Never have to say I Am Sorry.

Things we say. Things we Do Can Never Be Taken Back.

We have to live with what we do. The Bad, The Evil we do Hurts people. Hurts us.

We do not have to live a life where we are constantly saying and doing things we will Regret.

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